"Perfect" Boyfriend.

So, I was on Brutal Turtles blog the other day, and he had written a post about what he qualities he would like to see in his "perfect girlfriend" and it got me thinking about what I'd like in a guy. This list is gonna be really long, and I'm sorry :(

1. Like the same music. Music is a huge part of my life, and it'd be a gigantic shame if my boyfriend didn't want to join in at like, gigs and stuff. So, they have to like moshing (: I have a really weird, diverse range in my music taste too, so they have to like people from Yashin, The Blackout and Young Guns, to My Passion and Kill Hannah, and then all the others like A Day To Remember, You Me At Six, Four Year Strong, and then some of the ones that don't fit in with all those other genres like Owl City and Adam Lambert mwahaa.

2. Be happy to just... sit there. Now, when I say sit there, I don't mean doing nothing staring into space. I mean, be willing to just sit on the sofa and watch loads of crappy movies, without having to fill every moment of silence with conversation. I personally am not the best at carrying conversations on, so there are times when I just wanna sit there in a comfortable silence. This sounds really retarded, but I think you get what I mean. Just be able to sit there and cuddle!

3. Have some sense of fashion. I don't personally care about "fashion" per se, but I know what clothes look good and what don't. They have to make an effort with what they wear; not look like a tramp. You could say that I go out looking like a tramp, but hey, I try xD ... this makes me sound hypocritical, but I know what I mean.

4. Care about their hair. This might sound really hypocritical coming from me, but, surprisingly enough, I do actually care about what my hair looks like. I just tend to tie it up because I need it cut ahaha. I like loads of different colours in hair, so an interesting dye job is good. Messy hair just above the ears too with the classic side fringe. Yeaaaaah. [See point 9 for an expansion on this.]

5. Not wanna do loads of things that require money. I have no money. I rarely have money. So, unless they're willing to pay for me for literally everything, they gotta like just walking around haha. Or window shopping. I prefer to save what money I get for gigs (:

6. Be able to put up with my retarded mind. I do, so they can too xD They have to be able to put up with my fear of birds, seriously, if a bird comes flying at me I WILL use them as a shield. And they have to be able to put up with my stupid, childish fear of the dark. Its not all the time. And I'm not afraid of the dark as such, but more afraid of what my imagination does to the dark, like, making shadows into monsters haha. I'm the sort of person who thinks their duvet will protect them, no joke, I can't even stick my leg out for fear of claws dragging me down and then something eating my eyes.

7. Know about "teh internetz". 4chan, memes, viral videos. Yeah. They all make me laugh, so it would be nice if they could join in (: ... I suppose this also applies to using emoticons, like all the faces you see in here xD I love those, so if you use those I love you :D ... and lolspeak. Become fluent in lolspeak. Also, a carry on from this would be; Type properly. At least when they're speaking to me over MSN/texts. I cannot stand text talk, it drives me crazy x_x so learn to type normally, or there shall be no MSN or texts xD [The exceptions to this rule are when you are using emoticons like the faces, or speaking in lolspeak ^-^]

8. Be able to sing / play an instrument... generally be creative. This stems from my love of music. I personally can't sing or play an instrument, so it would be great if they could ^-^ The instruments are specifically guitar and or piano. I love both of those instruments so much. Acoustic guitars are pure love. As are pianos. Yaaaay (:

9. Don't be too expectant. When I come see them, they shouldn't always expect hair and make up to be done. I'm really lazy when it comes to those things. I will try to make an effort but.. I won't always look glamorous xD of course I won't expect their hair to be perfect either. It goes both ways (:

10. Be confident. I like people who can walk into a crowd of strangers and talk to them like they're friends. If you can do that, then I already admire you. I also love being cuddled, so if they're willing to cuddle me in public, then that makes them 100x better (: [Also, this has a knock on effect. Being cuddled is only nice when the person is taller, so, all my boyfriends MUST be taller than me. Sorry.]

OMG guys, I managed to keep it to 10 points! Obviously, nobody is perfect, and I'm not expecting any future boyfriend to be without flaws. It would just be nice to have all of the above xD
And, as always, there are exceptions to the rule, so, we shall see.

You used to captivate me by your resonating light, now I'm bound by the life you left behind. Your face it haunts my once pleasant dreams, your voice it chased away, all the sanity in me. These wounds won't seem to heal, this pain is just to real, there's just too much that time cannot erase...

-Rosa-xo